MUC: Don't default component admins to being room owners
This change has various technical and social benefits. If ownership of a MUC
is really needed, it can be gained using the 'Set affiliation' ad-hoc command
or prosodyctl shell.
Example client incompatibility with the old behaviour:
- https://github.com/monal-im/Monal/issues/1085
#!/bin/bash
set -eu
echo "spec/${1//./_}_spec.lua"