net.server_epoll: Factor out TLS initialization into a method
So there's :startls(), :inittls() and :tlshandshake()
:starttls() prepares for plain -> TLS upgrade and ensures that the
(unencrypted) write buffer is drained before proceeding.
:inittls() wraps the connection and does things like SNI, DANE etc.
:tlshandshake() steps the TLS negotiation forward until it completes
exclude = {
"^%./spec/";
}