diff -r 71ec41732035 -r 0d350e979bde mcabber/mcabber/xmpp_iqrequest.c
--- a/mcabber/mcabber/xmpp_iqrequest.c	Wed Dec 21 20:43:58 2016 +0100
+++ b/mcabber/mcabber/xmpp_iqrequest.c	Tue Nov 01 08:39:07 2016 +0100
@@ -670,7 +670,7 @@
   }
   g_free(bjid);
 
-  buddylist_build();
+  buddylist_defer_build();
   update_roster = TRUE;
 }