dirstate: factor the "changing" context logic out This makes it reusable for other types of changes.

dirstate: introduce a `is_changing_any` property This will embrace other cases than changing parents.

dirstate: rename `pendingparentchange` to `is_changing_parents` This is clearer and more inline witht he other change we did.

dirstate: rename _parentwriters to _changing_level We will have context for changing more than parents, so lets be prepared.

largefiles: remove the `changing_parents` context in `openlfdirstate` This code might run in any kind of change context, we should rely on the higher level context instead of opening our own.

largefiles: remove the second `changing_parents` in `updatelfiles` Now that the `update_file` call have been migrated, we can drop the semantically-wrong `changing_parents` context.

largefiles: remove the first `changing_parents` in `updatelfiles` Now that the `update_file` call have been migrated, we can drop the semantically-wrong `changing_parents` context.

largefiles: use `hacky_extension_update_file` in `updatelfiles` This is what the function is meant for.

largefiles: use `hacky_extension_update_file` in `synclfdirstate` This is what the function is meant for.

largefiles: use `hacky_extension_update_file` in `openlfdirstate` This is what the function is meant for.