inotify: improve error messages
* prefix messages by inotify-(client|server)
* make sure that all warning and abort messages use the same format.
* in the case where inotify.sock is an old broken symlink, say so and abort
instead of trying to overwrite the already existing link
% fail
abort: inotify-server: cannot start: .hg/inotify.sock is a broken symlink
inotify-client: could not talk to new inotify server: No such file or directory
abort: inotify-server: cannot start: .hg/inotify.sock is a broken symlink
% inserve
% status
? hg.pid