fsmonitor: migrate Python ABCs from collections to collections.abc
The Collections Abstract Base Classes in the collections module are
deprecated since Python 3.3 in favor of collections.abc, and removed
in Python 3.10.
## Avoid interference from actual test env:unset HGTEST_JOBSunset HGTEST_TIMEOUTunset HGTEST_PORTunset HGTEST_SHELL